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The Soulful Human's avatar

The first line of the last part reminds me of Bonnie Raitt’s Circle Dance.

Once you tap into the energy it’s hard to un-feel. I can tell when my own is low from my own thoughts/beliefs or from others. Wild, fun lil party trick😁

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I was just talking about this with a guy who was arguing about how we can tell when he wants to be more than friends and will be resentful if a woman wants a platonic relationship. We can feel the difference in the energy. There’s tension there when someone wants something from you. I always feel energized around actual friends who don’t want anything from me. 😉

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That’s true! My growth has been so sloppy that I can easily tell when I’m putting off yuck vibes, and then I try to pull back and assess. I was in denial at first, but at least I’m growing😅

Why would he be resentful? Why not just move on?🙄 I don’t know how you can keep talking to those men after all these years, but kudos to you bc I know you’re helping ppl in huge ways!🙌🏼 Yiu helped me see the light!🥰

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