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Marital Coercion

Blanket Consent?
What does it look like in a healthy relationship when consent is a given?
2:14
Sex Contract?
If someone is promising an emotional connection in exchange for sex, or demanding that you have sex with them because they validated your feelings…
1:26
Call it Rape to Its Face
Watch now | If you can’t name what’s happened to you, you can’t heal from it
2:38
Papa Gut Gets it Wrong
A YouTuber stitched a coercion victim to tell men she’s wrong and I corrected him.
2:47
When the Therapist is Encouraging "Giving" Sex
In this video I respond to a family therapist who describes a situation in which one person doesn't want sex, but will do it anyway for the other…
2:41
Men Using Sex for Emotional Connection
What this looked like for me with my ex and Navy Guy and how they helped me find center.
5:32
Maybe it’s #maritalcoercion
Maybe it’s not menopause.
0:22
Hiding from my husband
The flinching, the hiding, the covering up, it’s all a normal nervous system response to being regularly objectified
1:36
How not to coerce
What I would say if my partner wasn’t interested in sex for awhile
1:28
How to Help Him Stop Coercing You
You can't. You can only pull back your energy and let him feel the distance enough that he wants to change on his own. And then take care of yourself.
Proudly Withholding
How this accusation of withholding sex shaped my sexuality, drove me to impotence, and ultimately became the cornerstone of the house I’ve devoted the…
Maybe it Wasn’t His Fault
All the ways I defended my ex-husband and the systems that rally around men to make their wives the abuser when she is pushed away by coercion.
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